You know the old saying, you cant be friends with an ex? well i am going to be truthfully honest with you now, its correct. 7 weeks ago me and my ex split up and up until now things have been pretty much OK the odd hick up, the odd heated debate but all in all OK we still spoke still got along, but had simply ended that aspect of the relationship. However...
When you realize that your ex is in fact one of the most childish people you have ever met and her whole plan is to try and come between you and everything you had before her, that's when the happy go lucky ex's come to an end. no only is she content with trying to turn certain family members away from you, she also feels the need to turn others against you too, friends lets say. when we were bickering, no less than what we did when we were together, she does nothing more than run off and tell everybody that i went out of my way to annoy her, when if fact it was quite the opposite, you see she has this thing for blaming me for everything. when actually it was other people. if something happens to her i get kicked off on for not anticipating and stopping it? what am i? a bloody mind reader? i think not, so how am i supposed to be able to tell when she is going to be annoyed by somebody. That's exactly what happened today, she was annoyed by a member of my friendship group, through nothing to do with me, then as a result she turns on me without my knowing, and when i try to argue back she runs off and tells everybody i have been horrible.
So today i had decided that i had had enough and that i needed to put an end to it, so i told her only for her to go off on one and tell me that i am horrible, does a horrible person take her out for meals? but her expensive gifts, treat her with love for the whole time that we are together? I think not. I know that i may sound shallow but that simply isn't the case, we split up because no matter what i did for her she just seemed to take it in her stride, no thank yous or appreciation, instead she acted as if it was expected of me, well i don't need to be that person anymore, in fact i don't need to be anything to her anymore.
I just thought it would be nice for us to stay friends, more for her sake than mine, as although i had told her not to, the whole time we were together, she ignored her friends, as a result she lost them and is now friends with my friends, so i thought i would keep it simple by being civil but that is not enough she has made a petty argument out of something that could be resolved simply so i am forgetting about her now, and i am forgetting about our friendship.
So if ever you find yourself at the tail end f a relationship and think, shall we be friends? forget it, just forget it because it cant be done.
Thank you for reading my rant, it feels good to get that off of my chest. :-)
P.S - I promise anything following this will be a little more light hearted... ...probably!
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